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[borlandia]

I got dumped.

Only a guy like me could erase like 2 months of good times in about 5 minutes. I just need to face up to the fact that I don't have enough to offer and I'm not smart and charismatic enough to keep anyone interested for that long. I'm a total retard when it comes to girls, I'm not a nice guy, and really, there's not a whole hell of a lot that would really make me very attractive.

For once, I actually had things working well. It was the first relationship I've had where it seemed like there was a mutual attraction. It was the first relationship where there wasn't bitching and a huge fight every other day. Eventually what it comes down to is I'm not really good enough, and I'm not a decent enough guy to keep anyone happy and satisfied for an extended period of time.

Someday I'll finally realize all this and just keep my trap shut. It's not gonna work out for me. End of story.

Comments

Reason

[tombo713.livejournal.com]

Any reason why she dumped you?

Re: Reason

[njneere.livejournal.com]

As for the previous comment:
Don't you think he listed enough reasons?

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Personally, I don't agree with one of your reasons, but you know that everything happens for a reason. Sometimes, it isn't a very good reason, but that's the way the mop flops sometimes.

Someday, you will find a girl that is as much into you as you are into her, and when you do - you will know it. There won't be a lot of unanswered questions about her faith in you or yours in her.

I'm sorry you are hurting right now, and missing her, but you'll get over it, and you'll be able to move on soon.

Just put your best foot forward, and go about your life, and quit wondering what you may have done to make it happen. It could not possibly have been 100% your fault. And if you were a major contributor to the breakup, then learn from it, and try not to let it happen again.

Take care man ~ Be good to yourself

[http://users.livejournal.com/__burninated__/]

Ouch dude.

Wow...I'm really sorry, it seemed like things were going so well. Oh sorry, that was probably the wrrrrong thing to say:-\

As you can see....I'm not the best person to give relationship advice. But be good to yourself. Take care *hug*

[mrjorden.livejournal.com]

Just remember

If it was worth breaking up over that then you shouldn't even fret on it for long.

Money makes bitches listen.

[tigtogiba34.livejournal.com]

Dude it's all in your outlook, stop telling yourself things like you're not good enough etc. YOU ARE. Tell yourself that. I had the same beef with myself a few years ago. Meet the right kind of people, feel good about yourself first, then look for someone else, or in the meantime she will find you.

Just don't give up, never give up!